My mind is aware of it too -- I've been having strange dreams that left me waking up in a poor mood. As I attempted to recognize the problem I thought about several matters, and after 2-3 days I've come to some replies.
Walk away from your crutches, even though its your best buddy
First, I am fortunate enough to have a great best friend in San Diego. But, it is important that you be aware of when you must walk your path. Quite often, we lean on the shoulders of others, and in the process, neglect to learn what we should learn to do ourselves. By way of instance, I'm constantly hanging out with him, and we play video games. This is great fun, but recently after our LA trip I've felt a feeling of waste after playing games. I flashed my Heroes of the Storm bnet account and I have a lot more spare time on my hands. So the lesson is, learn if you have to develop your own strength, and also have the courage to walk away from the very best friend. He/she will understand, that you will need time to yourself to develop inner strength.
I have also discovered that my day pick up skills are much better, and that I have a tendency to do much better in my. Sometimes, you need to go out there and watch the world for yourself, rather than resenting others for"holding back you", when in actuality, you're the one which's doing it!
Seeing the silver lining in all
For a child, I used to think that if I am learning the piano at the afternoon, all the other kids are out there playing in the golden sunset! No! I felt a sense of loss! Yet, now, I'm grateful on some nights when I can just be at work and work to my heart content. No family, no friends bugging me, nothing. Only me and my job. Occasionally I may feel like this is lonely and perhaps it is, but that's the co napisać do starszej dziewczyny way it is for today, and I've learned to view it as a boon, I get to hangout with my friends when I want to, and possess my own time without being stressed by work or personal obligations.
Being trendy without"trying"
I have leverage the ability to be current thanks to Ekhart Tolle and I've noticed that when I am relaxed and unstressed, I have a open vibe. People talk to me personally. "What is that you are purchasing?" I believe that on weekdays, since many people are stressed, an unstressed, receptive energy translates well in contrast to all the pent up energy that people see everyday. I am fortunate enough to have financial freedom at this point in my entire life, and I shall continue to channel a chill, open vibe, even though I am working hard at work.
Presence, and internal love
Being"chill" also signifies non-judgement. When we judge others, in some ways we're also coping with our own demons. Live and let live. This is maybe one of the universal truths of all religions (that has been killed off by religious dogma). Your own presence of light is enough -- which alone could sustain you and add love to the world. Sometimes our ego gets in the way, and blinds us out of the spark and magnificent of what is there to begin with.
Strive for the best, judgement Absolutely Free of others I understood this is the wrong way to examine the world. Everyone is on their own journey. In a lot of ways, my negativity towards them was actually at myself -- at my inability to make things work. I should have sought out aid earlier, or acknowledged that I needed to meet new people, rather than resenting my friends. You can not always change somebody, however you can always love them.
It is okay to be an asshole, sometimes our mistakes instruct us how to arrive at the Ideal solution
In order for me to "find peace".
Or reach a point of approval, I had to undergo pain. The pain makes it possible to get to a point (hopefully) of throwing away the bags of their self.
Intimate relationships, savor all of the life has to offer you. Drink from the fountain
While I used to go for the hottest girls, I now want the deepest relationships in all areas of my life. Am I drawn to beautiful women? Absolutely. But my fascination today is more than only a physical one. I find myself losing charm for shallow beauty, and more in tune with inner beauty.
I'm still drawn sexually to superficial beauty, but in terms of my relationships as well as an-ongoing kind of situation, I see myself valuing a gorgeous girl who has great inner qualities too.